Sunday, April 29, 2007

Roses

Finally it seems that spring may be here. Along with the urge to plant some flowers, we should all take the time to stop and smell the roses.

Sometimes we are so busy with all the things that we think are so necessary, that we don’t necessarily think about some things that we should never be too busy for. These things are roses in our lives that we should not neglect or ignore.

So take the time to read an inspiring book, take a long, leisurely walk, play a game with your family, receive soul-soothing pleasure in the beauty of a sunrise or sunset, laugh with a friend, and meditate on the meaning of the flag, as it flutters in the breeze. Smile. Eat an ice cream cone. Hug a baby. Sit in the grass barefoot and wiggle your toes. Dance as you make dinner. Smell a rose.

We should be diligent in accomplishing all of the needful things of life, but we should not become so stressed or busy that we fail to find simple joy in our lives. This, too, is needful.

“And see that all these things are done in wisdom and order; for it is not requisite that a man should run faster than he has strength…..” (Mosiah 4:27)

Take time to stop and smell the roses!


Sunday, April 22, 2007

Hands

Many years ago Big Guy made a present for me in his Church nursery class. It consisted of the following poem pasted on a paper plate under which were his handprints in poster paint:

Sometimes you get discouraged,
Because I am so small
And always leave my fingerprints
On furniture and walls.

 But every day I'm growing.
 I'll be grown some day
 And all those tiny handprints
 Will surely fade away.

So here's a little handprint,
 Just so you can recall
 Exactly how my fingers looked
 When I was very small.

Big Guy's chubby toddler hands have grown into man hands and fingers that stretch a full octave, and two keys more, on the piano keyboard. A week ago he performed in his Senior recital. Although I've attended many recitals, I don't think I've ever been able to clearly see his hands like I could this time. I was fascinated and awed by the intricate fingering and powerful movement up and down the keyboard as he played DeBussy and Rachmaninof. He was dramatic, yet controlled. Poignant, yet precise. Those hands, once very small, were masterful.

You deserve a big hand, Big Guy. Thanks for sharing your splendid talent with us.


Wednesday, April 18, 2007

"Never Send to Know for Whom the Bell Tolls"

This morning I watched a portion of a television program that focused on the Virginia Tech tragedy. I became uncomfortably aware that my reaction to this horrific event was not as I thought it should be. Truly I felt sympathy and sorrow for the victims, and their grieving families. Yet I thought my emotion should be more poignant and piercing. I should have felt more.

I recall the distress and anxiety I felt as I watched the reports of the Columbine shootings a few years ago. I felt helpless, and a little hopeless. I was glued to the TV to hear the latest news or analysis of the situation. It bothered me for quite some time. I wanted to make sense of it, and that was not possible.

I’ve tried to figure out why I haven’t reacted as strongly, or as viscerally, to the Virginia Tech incident. Are we inured to the violence, and not easily shocked anymore? Are appalling incidents like this now something to be expected and accepted as part of life in this day and age? Do we protectively cocoon ourselves and our emotions because feeling the magnitude of such senselessly tragic events is too painful and enervating?

I’m still struggling. I should feel more.

Thursday, April 12, 2007

Big Guy and The Little Princess

The week in Utah was wonderful. Yes, there were some exhausting nights, but there were some delightful days. Annachka (my son’s diminutive for his daughter) is a sweet baby who does have her fussy moments, but is a joy nonetheless. It was a pleasure to take care of her.


Many family members gathered for her blessing on Easter Sunday, and that was a special occasion. How thrilling and gratifying it was to see my son, the father, assume his parental and religious duties with humble aplomb.

We all took turns doting on The Little Princess. Even Big Guy took his turn feeding her.As I watched him holding her, I was struck with one of those epiphanic moments. Family is what matters. Families can be forever.


Sunday, April 01, 2007

It's AMAZING!

I am not only amazed, I’m flabbergasted, elated, shocked, overjoyed, excited, nervous, and nearly speechless! Wouldn’t you feel that way, if you’d received a call informing you that—drum roll—you’d been selected as a finalist for “The Amazing Race”?!

Just think—traveling to exotic international destinations! Testing mental mettle and physical aptitude against other contestants in fierce competition! Jumping onto the mat at the pit stop in first place and giving Phil a high five and a hug! And possibly, the chance to win a million bucks!! Wahoooo!

I’m off to SLC tomorrow! Wish me luck!